La señora Dashwood se sintió tan ofendida con su nuera que hubiera abandonado la casa de inmediato si no hubiera sido por el consejo de Elinor, la hija mayor. Elinor poseía tan buen entendimiento y juicio que, aunque solo de 19 años, servía como consejera de su madre. Tenía un excelente corazón y sabía cómo gobernar sus sentimientos. Marianne era sensible e inteligente pero exagerada en sus sentimientos. Todas sufrían la situación en que se encontraban pero Elinor era capaz de contenerse. Podía recibir a la esposa de John, pedir consejo de su hermano y calmar a su madre y hermanas. Margaret, la otra hermana, tenía buen humor y había asimilado el romanticismo de Marianne, aunque sin su sentido.
" . . . So acutely did Mrs. Dashwood feel this ungracious behaviour, and so earnestly did she despise her daughter-in-law for it, that, on the arrival of the latter, she would have quitted the house for ever, had not the entreaty of her eldest girl induced her first to reflect on the propriety of going, and her own tender love for all her three children determined her afterwards to stay, and for their sakes avoid a breach with their brother.
Elinor, this eldest daughter, whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counsellor of her mother, and enabled her frequently to counteract, to the advantage of them all, that eagerness of mind in Mrs. Dashwood which must generally have led to imprudence. She had an excellent heart;—her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them: it was a knowledge which her mother had yet to learn; and which one of her sisters had resolved never to be taught.
" . . . So acutely did Mrs. Dashwood feel this ungracious behaviour, and so earnestly did she despise her daughter-in-law for it, that, on the arrival of the latter, she would have quitted the house for ever, had not the entreaty of her eldest girl induced her first to reflect on the propriety of going, and her own tender love for all her three children determined her afterwards to stay, and for their sakes avoid a breach with their brother.
Elinor, this eldest daughter, whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counsellor of her mother, and enabled her frequently to counteract, to the advantage of them all, that eagerness of mind in Mrs. Dashwood which must generally have led to imprudence. She had an excellent heart;—her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them: it was a knowledge which her mother had yet to learn; and which one of her sisters had resolved never to be taught.